Don’t Sweat The Small Stuff

My shirt was inside out through the entire visit with the ballet moms on the waiting bench.  While on a Target run after ballet, and through a speedy – in- store chat with someone who recognized me, and then while zipping through the check-out.

It wasn’t until my weary body could stand not one minute longer, and I couldn’t wait to slide into my comfy jammies, that I noticed  - the seams that were glaring at me on the OUTSIDE of my shirt!

I laughed.  Outloud.   Don’t sweat the small stuff.

While walking through a government building last week I could see the metal detector looming before me.  I am trying to decide if a purse over-haul would look suspicious or if I should just give the officer a long security check.  You see where I am going with this?  ……He takes my purse and the weight of his hand drops in surprise.  Heavy – yep.  Sorry.  The metal scanning wand begins beeping while he goes up my right side and down my left.  His look seems to be curious and frustrated all at the same time.  I tell him that I have money in my right coat pocket for the Aldi’s carts, and bobby pins and hair things for my little girls in my left coat pocket.   He has me empty my pockets – the evidence:  quarters and hair things.

When he begins to comb through my purse, I can see the little smirk on his bent face.  Poor guy I wonder just how many SAHM come through his scanner a day?  He pushes aside tissues, baggie of fruit loops, infant ibuprofen, spare diaper, pencils, loose crayons, baby slipper shoes, matchbox car, zillion coffee receipts ( for my husband of course) , the expected, baby bottle liners and spare juice box for long appointments, mini-barbie doll, my camera, and $56 in loose change.

My quick trip through a government building.  I laughed – later.  Outloud.  Don’t sweat the small stuff.

(p.s. I did clean out my purse later that night.  Saving all of that loose change for a date-night with my hubby!)

As I work on simplifying my life this year, I am discovering just how adaptable I have become in not sweating the small stuff.  This was not always me.

I was looking around this week at all of the things that you, my friends might consider zany and out of order – in the pulse of my days…

And then it occurred to me – I have had to learn – to teach myself how to make THIS life work for US.

And it does.  Most days.  And perhaps you are wondering when you read blogs on exercise, motherhood, eating well, crafts for kids, homeschooling, organization, and fashion advice – Just HOW can one can possible do everything and have it all together.

Don’t sweat the small stuff.

I consider my life to be life the salt and pepper shakers.  A dash of this and a dash of this, but a steady dose of God.

Brushing my teeth – after scrubbing the Desitin off of the toothbrush that was used earlier in the day by the baby –  when I wasn’t looking.  Scrambling a healthy meal on the table after a full day of homeschooling, music lessons, and lunch in the car with seven out of ten children.  All day.  Finding my own jeans in our teen daughters rooms, after laundry is put away.  Taking more time to get ready than should be expected.  Wearing my shirts inside out – by accident.

More opportunities to mutter thanksgiving to God, rather than grumbling.  

Small Stuff

 

 

 

 

 

Let’s be real – What is the big deal with NOT folding socks, any ways?

 

See you tomorrow!

… and p.s.   Check out one of my favorite new sites!    Check back tomorrow for a little surprise!

So, tell me?  What has become a big deal to you and you just want to laugh about it?

 

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September
  • http://www.embracinggrace.org/ Amanda@EmbracingGrace

    Agreed!!! Who wants to fold socks anyways? What does it matter if our closets are organized enough to be “pinterstable”….. Don’t sweat the small stuff is a great slogan to remember:) :)

    • septemberanne

      Ahhh Amanda! Pinterest will get me every time! Thanks for sharing here today!

  • Kate @ Teaching What Is Good

    Well, I have to say that our sock drawers NEVER look like that so you are twice a year ahead of me!! :D Loved this post – and a great exhortation. Life is too short to get stressed out at little and insignificant things! Blessings.

    • septemberanne

      KATE! Did you change your blog name ? I was glad to see you here today! Hugs!

  • http://twitter.com/Mother211 Debi Chapman

    September – This is so true! I laughed out loud as I read your sweet words. Yesterday, I was preparing a bag for charity donation. (my Feb dejunk plan) I grabbed my ‘old’ purse to toss in – dumped the random debris in the bottom and marveled at how heavy the empty purse was. It rattled when shook. Then I found the ever so small hole in the lining that had siphoned my change into the casing. Bingo! I had lunch out with our son on that find. :)

    • septemberanne

      Oh my Debi! That little lining in our purses must have post written all on that one topic! Oh what we may find there! :) Much love my friend!

  • Diane Shiffer

    :-)

  • http://twitter.com/stephmommybrain Stephanie Kay

    lol! So true! Although I confess our sock drawers DO look like that but it’s more for survival so we can FIND 2 socks mixed in with the underwear and pajamas.

    • septemberanne

      I always love reading your comments Stephanie! Smiling as I picture all of us digging for matched socks! :)

  • Lisa Jacobson

    I’m tempted to take a pic of our very LARGE bin of unmatched socks…to add to the laughs. But I’m not quite ready to do the same with the area under our kitchen sink – not chuckling about that one yet…?
    A wonderful post and encouraging perspective!

    • septemberanne

      Lisa… LOL… We have three of those bins of un-matched socks. I call it survival! Hugs! Can’t wait to chat with you at http://club31women.com/!!!

  • http://www.amylearns.com/ Amy Tilson

    I’m learning to not get so hung up. I’m mean seriously, I’ll be 43 tomorrow and my little guy just turned 4 – and he’s it! I don’t have the energy for lots of crazy stress. BTW – I’m soooo glad you are back! :)

    • septemberanne

      Ohh friend! You and me both! Enjoy that special birthday – relaxing! :) I am soo happy to see you here today! You’re such an encourager!

  • Amanda Pausley

    I’m new here :) And, just love this blog! I relate so much today!

    • septemberanne

      Hooray Amanda! So glad that you feel at home here! Real Life Living! Thank you for such sweet words!

  • Janet Roth

    One thing that I gave up on a few years ago was brilliantly white socks. I finally got tired of the whole presoak, soak some more, and then wash with bleach and hope nothing slips in with them process. Socks are socks…and with two rough and tumble boys who will randomly run outside and through the grass with only their socks on, I now just laugh and run with them knowing no one is going to die because their socks aren’t like new white anymore. Loved your post and laughed out loud with you on your shirt ordeal. I once put on a brand new pair of pants that I just bought in the mall to go and meet my hubby for lunch…unknowingly there was a huge sticker down the back of my leg that I just showed to the whole front of the restaurant as I walked around looking for him. So funny!

    • septemberanne

      Oh my ! Janet – you had me in stitches! Honestly – If we could all encourage one another to remember this – and not forget – what a gift that would be! Thank you for sharing – Your right on! Hugs!

  • Esther E Hawkins

    Love this – and you know we’ve all done it :) After we had our third baby, I am learning to embrace chaos. Going to bed with toys scattered, dishes waiting to be washed and laundry still to be folded is not uncommon. I have traded organization and order for fun, and I’m learning to trade control for complete surrender. I highly recommend it!

    • septemberanne

      Esther! First – I love your name! Thank you for this post. All of the above for me – dishes, toys and sometimes morning brings a new beginning. Amen! Saw you on twitter and cannot wait to chat with you!

  • Heather

    Ahhh. Very refreshing! And I think you all have pretty socks!

  • jennifer kindle

    I stopped sorting socks about a year ago! My 4 year old daughter wears super hero costumes to church and I just don’t know if I should care about that or not! I’m always so glad to see your blog with a new post in my inbox.

  • Joan G

    I LOVED this story of yours, September! I was cracking up the whole time I read it!

    My oldest daughter (now 21) used to wear her Pocahontas outfit every year to take her Standardized testing. Once she outgrew that, she wore her “Sunday Best” dress.

    These are indeed precious moments! :-)